Human psychology can be an enormous topic. None really can illustrate enough how really it works. We can see some people are crazy, proud, irritating, egoistic, and with their own hypothesis about their life. While others are cool, funny, pleasing, and with broader concept to handle the track of their life.
Those who tend to look enduring from outside are often very weak inside. To hide their delicacy, they want to demonstrate as if they are brave and powerful. They try to motivate themselves to prevent the upcoming consequences by blaming others as a reason for it. That is just the substitution of angers from one form to another; even it is relaxing for a modest amount of time, this poor motivation subsequently lead them to severe depression and tension headache. Substitution of difficult situation and escaping away from it is not a perfect solution. Instead, it is wise to accept what we are lacking in our life can reveal the real scenario and lead to an alluring environment. Willingness to accept is a good sign of change.
However, those people who appear to be cool and kind looks weaker from outside but in reality they have very strong brain and heart. This always comes from positive attitude towards the life and capability to adjust in any situation. Certainly, it is very hard to find the human with no negative feelings. However, these types of people control their mind with positive thoughts and are strong enough to handle any situation and circumstances. What I noticed is they usually try to postpone the date for those things which they do not like or do not want to do instead of saying no and arguing with it. They always ask for the time to think rather than denying which makes the conditions worse than it is before. Definitely, nobody wants to hear negative answers. Even that thing which has no meaning to me can be a huge thing for others. Eventually, this concept of life not only emphasize to delight others feelings with respect, also it is the best way to keep oneself away from stress and its bad effects.
Nevertheless, the way how people deal with the people cannot determine what they really are. The reason is, everything in this world is marvelous and it is the individual eyes and hand to see and feel it. For instance, when it is raining some people can feel the rain and others just get wet, likewise some sees a half glass of water while others will say a half empty glass. So, it is not important to find person to see all the qualities you have. Although, it is very essential to understand each and every individual has their own potential and may be everyone is not perfect to explore those endurance. In this world, nobody genuinely cares how you really are, they will only admire you according to their need and vein.