Life Would Be Meaningless If We Can Return Back To Past

It is veracious that you cannot modify the past and impossible to return back to manipulate the things as you wanted it to happen because it's gone. If we can retrieve the past, life would be meaningless with no excitements and surprises. 

Nothing in this world is white and transparent, if you expect to be like that, then you will be hurting yourself, which will shadow your potential to explore the real world. Rather, it can be engrossing if you believe every positive and negative part of life and dare to move on. Doubtlessly, a tiny little thing can change your surrounding spectacularly and you can remorse for what you did and said. Sometimes, you may want to go back and remove all its existences. At the same time you will realize things have transformed so much with no possibility to erase it. However, there is nothing thing to self-disgust, that was all because you felt and liked that way at that time. And, it is not essential every feeling will last longer or even if it is there in your heart, its better  to leave behind to be happy in the present and embrace tremendous privileges of the future. 

Learning from your own mistakes without repeating again is substantially crucial. Try to give your best everyday which can help you to grow as a better person in every stage of your life. The only thing that you can turn is your future. Make it marvelous with appropriate plan; it’s all in your hand. Just grab it and don’t let it go from your reach. 

Believe In Yourself To Overcome The Worst Circumstances

This world is indubitably egocentric. So do not hesitate to plan and think about yourself. You can never satisfy other yearning with any bid. If you open your heart and try to please others then also they will rarely be contended. It is better not to grow false hope on your mind by thinking that one day they will be fascinated by your work. More you attempt brings more tears in your eyes. Just be yourself and move on. If you do so, that makes you strong and ultimately you can deal with others. The core is to delight your own zeal which will certainly reflect on your face. After that only, you can tackle with the world and its creatures with a smiling gesture.

Basically, this universe is opportunistic in nature that will leave you blind and behind. After achieving their motives, they will not even look back and say I am here because of you.  Now you have time to think wisely and plan accordingly, so that you do not need to regret in the future. It is almost like a ripen fruits; they will enjoy it until they can eat and throw the seeds. My words may seem bewilder and self- indulgent but it is very reality, which people will realize while they are alone in the darkness and none shows the right way to go. Every people looks appealing from arbitrary like a halo. Before falling in that trap and not considering whatever the situation is, just concentrate on what is your goal in life and go through it. Sometimes it may be overwhelming and you may get lost somewhere with no destination. Nonetheless, do not get panicked, instead explore the way with a broad horizon. No matter if you see darkness everywhere, ensue even if you find a dim light. That will definitely lead you towards your destination.

All the famous figure of earth is renowned because of their achievement in life and their ability to change the human lives. At the beginning, absolutely they did what they thought and aimed that lead them successful to climb the mountain of life. People realized and admired their work only because that is useful to them. Likewise, despite the surroundings and the consequences innovative people invented and succeeded because they did not scramble, but pursue ahead behind their dream without hesitating to perceive any results. In fact,  you are the only one who can convince yourself. Thus, if you are afraid to convince yourself to pursue your dream by accepting the challenges and hindrances of your path, then none ever will know how much potential you hold and what you are. All in all, do not change your identity for what you are in any circumstances, once you give up, you will end up with nothing and there will be just emptiness in life. Maneuver the graceful life beyond the deadlock and negotiate with your prospective of life because at the end of the day your own happiness matters than anything else.

My Analysis of The Human Behavior

Human psychology can be an enormous topic. None really can illustrate enough how really it works. We can see some people are crazy, proud, irritating, egoistic, and with their own hypothesis about their life. While others are cool, funny, pleasing, and with broader concept to handle the track of their life.

Those who tend to look enduring from outside are often very weak inside. To hide their delicacy, they want to demonstrate as if they are brave and powerful. They try to motivate themselves to prevent the upcoming consequences by blaming others as a reason for it. That is just the substitution of angers from one form to another; even it is relaxing for a modest amount of time, this poor motivation subsequently lead them to severe depression and tension headache. Substitution of difficult situation and escaping away from it is not a perfect solution. Instead, it is wise to accept what we are lacking in our life can reveal the real scenario and lead to an alluring environment. Willingness to accept is a good sign of change.

However, those people who appear to be cool and kind looks weaker from outside but in reality they have very strong brain and heart. This always comes from positive attitude towards the life and capability to adjust in any situation. Certainly, it is very hard to find the human with no negative feelings. However, these types of people control their mind with positive thoughts and are strong enough to handle any situation and circumstances. What I noticed is they usually try to postpone the date for those things which they do not like or do not want to do instead of saying no and arguing with it. They always ask for the time to think rather than denying which makes the conditions worse than it is before. Definitely, nobody wants to hear negative answers. Even that thing which has no meaning to me can be a huge thing for others. Eventually, this concept of life not only emphasize to delight others feelings with respect, also it is the best way to keep oneself away from stress and its bad effects.

Nevertheless, the way how people deal with the people cannot determine what they really are. The reason is, everything in this world is marvelous and it is the individual eyes and hand to see and feel it. For instance, when it is raining some people can feel the rain and others just get wet, likewise some sees a half glass of water while others will say a half empty glass. So, it is not important to find person to see all the qualities you have. Although, it is very essential to understand each and every individual has their own potential and may be everyone is not perfect to explore those endurance. In this world, nobody genuinely cares how you really are, they will only admire you according to their need and vein.  

What is life?

 Life is like a mysterious game. Till now, I am unable to figure out what it exactly is? But what I believe is, it is really a miracle and nobody knows what will turn out next. Some time it gives us more than we deserve, whereas at the meantime it demolishes our precious moment with intolerable pain.

It is just the matter of time, it will slew without realizing how smashing it was. In reality, we always kindle to pursue a great life with limitless fascination by scheming for the perfect days to come. However, this is just an obsession of mind which is never going to happen. More you outline more it will get complicated. Despite this also we cannot prevent ourselves from doing so. We are deceiving to our own feelings by not listening for what we want to be. There is nothing divine in this world, instead it just leads us towards disorientation. Profound fact is that we are sacrificing everything from the starting and becoming auxiliary of the circumstances.

Indeed, there is nothing and none to strife for. We are responsible for our own actions and everything depends on our own adjudication for what we wanted to be. Eventually, either that may lead towards revered feeling or may imposed to harrow ordeal. Anyway, we should be privileged for what we have achieved till now, who knows our present intends will be lucrative in future.

Be A Friend Of Your Child, Not An Angry Parent

It is certainly true that rewarding the child is most appropriate way for their encouragement. If a child is learning how to walk on her own and when she falls on her first try, she will look at you for your response. It is absolutely most exciting moment for the parents, so child gets motivated to stand up from the ground to impress their parents. However, if parents discourage for their failure, the child will become discouraged and eventually that will affect badly on the child attitude. In the same way, it will apply to teenagers and adults too.

Whereas, behavior of parents changes as the child grows. They start expecting a lot from their child, which may give more pressure on the child’s psychology. We do not say our child that none is perfect in this world. We never say that’s okay: there is nothing wrong on your capability but you should not give up trying. Every child is different individual with different brain and emotions. It is most essential to give enough time to make everything right. Helping a child for everything may spoil the child and their dependency. If we give a book to a child with tough vocabulary and if we ask them to read, then it can be overwhelming to a child and he/she may loose his/her interest on reading afterwards. Instead, if we provide them a paper with simple words, then they will find it interesting and feel confidence onwards. Not only that, they will also develop the positive feeling toward study by mastering their capability.

In contrast, when a teenager did a mistake in their life that could be disastrous for them. This is not because of results of what they just did, but this is because they are afraid to share with their parents and thinking about their reaction. How can not we accept that they will learn from their own experiences? Definitely, it is our duty to protect the child and prevent them from choosing a wrong track of life. Nonetheless, if they do so then its best to support them by staying on their side and supporting them to give their best on the upcoming days, rather than showing a cruelty and blaming. Because of this habit, child hesitates to share their experiences to their parents and by the time they know it is already too late to stop the consequences.

If we are friendly with the child and stay on their side encouraging for the best, we can anticipate that what is going to happen, so that can suggest them the way to not let this happen. It is always important to maintain their independence, that is the developmental task for every child and if they are not able to meet the needs can results delay in their development. It is not necessary that child can understand right way at the time we suggest. They need time to understand and think about this, so it is better to explain them clearly about both positive and negative scenario of the situation. Let them choose the way and appreciate whatever they choose. If they choose the best way that is marvelous, give some rewards for their good choices. It’s okay if they mislead the path, just remain with them and warn them in between. After doing that also they chose the way which they should not follow, allow them to come back to you instead of scolding for not obeying them. Be with them every time when they need and again help them to stand on their own like they did in childhood. Our job being a parent is just to stay on the side encouraging and supporting them to step up again.

My Notes for IELTS Preparation

Date: 8/7/2012 

Academic Writing

 In IELTS writing is divided into two parts:

Task 1: It includes Bar chart, Table, Pie chart, Line graph etc.

Task 2: Essay of general topics

It is important to understand how the examiner is going to grade our writing, before the beginning of our preparation. Mindful things to memorize while starting our writing on an exam or during the practice are:

1.      Task Response

Ø  Write between 150-200 words in Task 1 and 250-325 words in Task 2

Ø  Clearly identify the task in the introduction

Ø  State your position in the introduction and conclusion

Ø  Relate each paragraph with the task

2.      Coherence and cohesion:

Ø  Write in paragraph

Ø  Give clear introduction ,main argument and conclusion

Ø  Use example and reason for the main arguments

Ø  Link the sentences using linking words. Some examples are:-

 Because of this, …
As this shows, …

As can clearly be seen from this example, …

It is clear that…

Thus, the idea that…

To illustrate this, …

After analyzing both points of view, …

To provide a summary, …

Without a doubt, this causes…

Ø  Use the appropriate punctuation

3.      Lexical Resource

Ø  Do not repeat the same wording of the question

Ø  Determine if you have repeated same words consistently, if so avoid repetition

Ø  Practice the use of variety of vocabulary

Ø  Be sure to use vocabulary specific to the topic of the question

4.      Grammatical range and accuracy

Ø  Use correct spelling and punctuation

Ø  Use parallel structures

Ø  Write variety of sentence types, like: simple, compound, complex and compound-complex sentences

After analyzing all the marking strategies, lets discuss what to include in each paragraph of essay.

Introduction paragraph

   - A background sentence giving some background information on the essay topic.
   - A more detailed sentence linking the background sentence to the thesis.
   -A thesis that presents your point of view on your given topic.
   -An outline sentence declaring the 2 points you are going to use to support your thesis.

Supporting paragraph 1

    -A topic sentence illustrating the first point you will be presenting to support your thesis (this point taken from your outline sentence).
    -A sentence showing a real-life example of this topic in action.
    -A discussion sentence that shows how your example links or proves your topic sentence.

          In this step, it is necessary to understand how to introduce examples. One piece of language to do that is of course “for example”, then there is “for instance” or “an illustration of this is”. But best way to illustrate the example is using “if”, which is an excellent alternative for introducing examples, not least because it typically leads into a more extended example with a greater range of topic vocabulary.

    -A conclusion sentence that links this entire paragraph back to your thesis.

Supporting paragraph 2

    -A topic sentence illustrating the second point you will be presenting to support your thesis (this point taken from your outline sentence).
    -A sentence showing a real-life example of this topic in action.
    -A discussion sentence that shows how your example links or proves your topic sentence.
    -A conclusion sentence that links this entire paragraph back to your thesis.

Conclusion paragraph

    -A summary sentence that briefly states the 2 points you discussed in your supporting paragraphs.
    -A restatement of your thesis using different words.
   - A prediction or recommendation based on the topic you have been given.

Here are some Transition Words, which can be useful for both Task 1 and Task 2.

Big Adjectives	Small Adjectives	Steady Adjectives	Others
Spectacular Dramatic Substantial Significant Sudden Sharp Rapid Noticeable Wide Considerable	Modest Slight Marginal	Steady Consistent Gradual	Overall trend Downward trend Upward Trend Upturn Downturn

Up Verbs	Down Verbs
Soar Leap Surge Climb Rocket Grow Increase Rise Peak	Plummet Sink Dip Drop Slip back Dive Decline Plunge Slumped Fall Decrease

Cause	Effect
Accordingly As a result Because Because of Consequently Due to Eventually For this reason	Have an effect on Hence Owing to Reason for Since So Therefore Thus

Comparison	Contrast
Almost the same as Common with Correspond to In the same way At the same time Just as Like, Alike Resemblance Resemble Similar to Similarly To be parallel to Also	Different from Differ from Even so However In contrast to In opposition to Less than More than Otherwise Slower than Still Nonetheless Nevertheless Although Even though Yet Even if Even so Unlike

Time	Degree
Before After Since Next Then Soon At the same time While Meanwhile	Most important First Principally Above all Primarily In the first place Less important Second In the second place To a lesser degree

Explanation	Adding more Information and summarize
In other words Such as To clarify Like For instance For example That is To illustrate Namely To begin with	In addition Moreover Besides Furthermore Also As well as What’s more Above all In conclusion In summary Lastly Finally To sum up To conclude To recapitulate In short

Pie chart

While describing pie chart, the word percentage may be often repeated. To avoid this chance of repeating we can replace this word by proportion, amount, number, majority, minority etc. It is always better to use word percentage than percent. The correct way to use percent is per cent, even we use it less likely.

It is better to use percentage into fractions and with some appropriate words, like:

20%-One fifth or a fifth

21%-Around one fifth

24%-Almost a quarter

25%-One fourth or a quarter

33%-One third or a third

50 %-One half, a half

67%-Two third

66%-Precisely two thirds

75%-Three fourth or three quarters

73%-A significant majority, approximately three quarters

87%-A very large proportion

5%- A small fraction, an insignificant proportion

Noun Phrase	Former/respectively/such
One possible explanation is……., Another is………	Of the two, the former would appear to be
It is clear that sales of smart phones and laptops both rose substantially	by 48 per cent and 23 per cent respectively.
A number of suggestions have been put forward…………	One such suggestion is

Note: If you look for everything, you may find nothing, but if you look for something, you have every chance of finding it.

References:
http://www.ielts-blog.com/category/ielts-preparation-tips/writing-tips/page/2/
http://www.dcielts.com/

Some Memories From Past-Not Perfect But Worth Remembering

My childhood days were very interesting and pleasing. I was a shy little girl who was loved by everyone. My mum and dad, the most amazing and caring parents in this world. I never realized what the struggle was, what it felt not to be loved by parents and relatives. Overall, my childhood was a wonderful and memorable moments of my life.

I still remember that incident when I was in first grade of my school. I had participated in a running competition and my position was last. However, I still wonder and feel so proud that I had participated in that game. Actually, it was a running competition of senior grades students, so called big boy’s competition. While they were collecting the name of participants, I was there and I told them I want to play, they laughed at me and replied politely, this is not your game sweetie and that’s obvious, but again I insisted to participate. At this time, I thought why I can’t play if other can play, that was the first childish thought come to my mind. Finally, although that’s for humor, they decided to include me. Eventually, I made that game very interesting to everybody. The funny thing was, when referee said get set and go, I was about to run and by that time winner was already selected but I was still running to reach the target point. One of my teachers was very surprised by my courage. He came near to me and said “congratulations dear, you are last”. I was very glad; I did not even understand meaning of first or last because he gave me a pencil and copy as a prize, yay! 

Everybody needs an inspiration and a role model to step ahead in life. It is not necessary that we cannot move forward without influencing factors. However, except some extraordinary people, rest of the people need someone in their lifetime to lead in the right way of their destination with invaluable support. While I was in school I had got very wonderful friends and teachers who are responsible for what I am now. Without them, I may get lost somewhere. Hence, I feel so lucky to have such amazing friends and teachers. 

Whereas, sometime having someone around you all the time can make you dependent and can be harmful too. I realized that after I went to the capital city of Nepal, Kathmandu for my Bachelor Degree. I was 18, innocent, dependent and a naive. I was from remote village; I never traveled alone in public bus and public places. I exactly did not know what I wanted to be in my life. I had lost many times on the road of Kathmandu; it took me very long time to figure out the direction to go. May be at that time I did not feel the necessity to explore the world because I had already met a very sweet and adorable friend Nirmala as my classmate. She was pretty with long hair and very caring attitude. I have to say she was my best friend that I ever had. Despite of being far from my family, I was not alone there only because of her. I had found someone who can help me every time and for everything. In other words, without even realizing myself, I was totally dependent on her.

Every individual is different person and they have their own pace and style of learning. However, at that time, I just wanted to study how Nirmala used to study and I never cared for the direction to go anywhere unless she was there. I never tried to be myself, instead I always became as she was. She was very intelligent and smart girl, so being like her never led me in reverse direction. We used to enjoy walking together for long distance and loved to talk with each other, at the same time we were serious about our study too. Every person who knew both of us, always used to surprise and some of them used to get jealous of our friendship. We used to be an example of what friends should be alike. But, time is very cruel, that can change everything and even our friendship. Since, one of our friend moved near to her house, she used to come together with her and then we started to walk in the group. That was initial change but a really hard moment for me to adjust. I felt like my best friend is steadily going away from me. That sounds like awkward but I was emotionally being very fragile. After certain time this change that I realized I cannot do anything without her help like, studying, shopping, traveling and even making new friends. In the beginning it was hurting a lot but immediately, one day a thought came in my mind that everything happen for a reason and this is the time to be myself and I have to explore the world on my own. I accepted that as a challenge and as an opportunity to know myself. As a result, I tried to avoid her slowly. Many times she wanted to come closer and asked me, what her fault was. She did not even know why I was avoiding her, since then I had already changed into myself. There was a time we both cried together because of this distance between our friendships. By that time I was strong enough to handle myself and explained to her it was not her mistake and it really wasn’t, instead that helped me to understand my situation. It was all demand of time and I had to pay my best friend for a while as the price of my dependency.

Luckily, we are still same best friend as we were before, besides substantial modification on my dependent attitude. Now, I am real me with my own style, nature and ambition. Now I can go anywhere as I want, even I am in America, without anyone’s help. I am not afraid to talk with anybody and can do anything what I want. This way, I learned a lesson that we do not need to change for anybody to impress and to be a smart enough because you are an original piece which cannot be replaced by anyone else. You can shine your hidden talents as fireworks do in the night with its light. Do not worry if all the doors in front of you are closed, maybe it’s because you could open one and will led you to the perfect road and will show the world why you are worth .